Rallying Cry! HELP THE BRAD!!!
Jan. 4th, 2005 05:34 pmDo you like
bradhicks?
(He's going to HATE me for this but I don't care.)
Are you a former attendee of the Infamous Brad Parties?
Do you read his JOURNAL?
Now, here's the big question:
Are you willing to help him?
Brad needs help. I think that he was able to make it through the holidays because of the short term quality of the whole thing.
His most recent post indicates that he realizes that he will be in trouble soon.
What he doesn't tell you is that he's in really deep trouble NOW.
We can fix his life if we band together and do something. I hear that he's been getting cash donations: THIS IS WONDERFUL. Keep it up, if you can.
However, for all that Brad is articulate and decisive about some things, when it comes to climbing out of this hole, he's seems to have nothing left.
I'm a busybody, I admit it. It also shames me to think that a friend needs help and I might ignore that plea.
Here's what I *THINK* Brad needs, and I want to see some hands come up to see who can deal with which problem:
*He needs to see a doctor. Since he doesn't have one in town and doesn't have insurance, this is tricky.
minidoc is helping with trying to get him an appointment. Provided that I am not AT work at the time, I will personally drive him to the appointment if necessary. If I cannot, who volunteers?
*He needs groceries. I know that
cos_x and
phierma got him the option of some staples from their church food pantry. I think they should see if this will still work. Also, anyone who wants to feed Brad ought to do so. Let's keep his precious cash stores left alone, and let's all feed him until things stabilize, shall we?
*He needs to deal with GC services. He needs to either stall them for a while until he can get his paperwork dealt with, or he needs to get whatever money he can out of them and cut loose. I can't help him with this part.
Who can?
*He needs a social worker. Some of you are social workers or know someone who is. Anyone?
*He needs to get on disability, or get a job as a political writer (or some other thing) where he can work from home. Speak up if you can help!
*He needs to know that he is not alone and that we are here to support him. Remember that as a result of his upbringing and mental disability, he WILL NOT ASK FOR HELP. The closest he will come is posts like that last one.
*He needs legal help for car related nonsense and some of the above items. Anyone willing to work pro-bono? Or perhaps go after GC and get a hefty settlement for Brad and yourself?
I am willing to bet that this list is not comprehensive or complete. I am willing to be wrong about some of it. Anyone who has better ideas, please feel free to pitch in and make suggestions (or better yet, find other things that he needs and I missed and provide them!)
Brad's problems may be too big for him to handle. Brad's problems may be to big for any one person to handle.
But we are many, the little folk we, and we can make a difference.
And we can make him see that life is worth living and fighting for, while we are at it.
We cannot let one of our number FALL!
"When you can't crawl... when you can't even do that..."
"You find someone to carry you."
Let's be Big Damn Heroes, eh?
(He's going to HATE me for this but I don't care.)
Are you a former attendee of the Infamous Brad Parties?
Do you read his JOURNAL?
Now, here's the big question:
Are you willing to help him?
Brad needs help. I think that he was able to make it through the holidays because of the short term quality of the whole thing.
His most recent post indicates that he realizes that he will be in trouble soon.
What he doesn't tell you is that he's in really deep trouble NOW.
We can fix his life if we band together and do something. I hear that he's been getting cash donations: THIS IS WONDERFUL. Keep it up, if you can.
However, for all that Brad is articulate and decisive about some things, when it comes to climbing out of this hole, he's seems to have nothing left.
I'm a busybody, I admit it. It also shames me to think that a friend needs help and I might ignore that plea.
Here's what I *THINK* Brad needs, and I want to see some hands come up to see who can deal with which problem:
*He needs to see a doctor. Since he doesn't have one in town and doesn't have insurance, this is tricky.
*He needs groceries. I know that
*He needs to deal with GC services. He needs to either stall them for a while until he can get his paperwork dealt with, or he needs to get whatever money he can out of them and cut loose. I can't help him with this part.
Who can?
*He needs a social worker. Some of you are social workers or know someone who is. Anyone?
*He needs to get on disability, or get a job as a political writer (or some other thing) where he can work from home. Speak up if you can help!
*He needs to know that he is not alone and that we are here to support him. Remember that as a result of his upbringing and mental disability, he WILL NOT ASK FOR HELP. The closest he will come is posts like that last one.
*He needs legal help for car related nonsense and some of the above items. Anyone willing to work pro-bono? Or perhaps go after GC and get a hefty settlement for Brad and yourself?
I am willing to bet that this list is not comprehensive or complete. I am willing to be wrong about some of it. Anyone who has better ideas, please feel free to pitch in and make suggestions (or better yet, find other things that he needs and I missed and provide them!)
Brad's problems may be too big for him to handle. Brad's problems may be to big for any one person to handle.
But we are many, the little folk we, and we can make a difference.
And we can make him see that life is worth living and fighting for, while we are at it.
We cannot let one of our number FALL!
"When you can't crawl... when you can't even do that..."
"You find someone to carry you."
Let's be Big Damn Heroes, eh?
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Date: 2005-01-05 12:59 am (UTC)Otherwise, you're pretty much right about what I need. And you're also unfortunately right that I'm unlikely to do anything about them myself. I just got off the phone with
I like Brad!
Date: 2005-01-05 03:52 am (UTC)Love you all
Kitten
Re: I like Brad!
Date: 2005-01-05 04:18 am (UTC)And you're a great cook.
(Ironically, the whole "tags and insurance" thing is part of why Brad stays home, BTW.)
But I bet he might be willing to risk a visit to Chesterfield. What say ye, BRAD?
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Date: 2005-01-05 06:14 am (UTC)Once Brad gets the car stuff straightened out or if he's willing to chance a drive over by Grant's Farm, off Tesson between Gravois and Lindbergh, he's welcome for dinner any time I cook. Once I move on Saturday that is. Until then I live in the city and I think he's boycotting that.